Some helpful reading: http://www.itswalky.com/d/20040330.html (and onward) http://www.itswalky.com/d/20040419.html (and onward) http://www.shortpacked.com/2011/comic/book-13/01-daddy-issues/rachel/ Also, uh, hey, Joyce and Walky! is kind of important here.  hint hint wink wink